What do you think? Look like the pox?
Saturday, November 29, 2008
What do you think? Look like the pox?
Age fourteen: Dad lost his job and we moved to a tiny, run down trailer house in the country. My school sold "The World's Best Chocolate" candy bars to raise money and I ended up eating the whole box. It was the first time I turned to food for comfort. I would sneak into the bathroom and eat a candy bar several times a day. (What is this thing with hiding in the bathroom? Apparently, I have done that for a long time.)
Age 17: My family did the Atkins diet together. I peed on sticks to see if I was in "kitosis"; later learning that "kitosis" is not a healthy state to be in after all. I lost about 20 pounds that were promptly gained back when we quit the diet.
Age 19: Left for college. Spent the next three years gaining weight. I gained about 20 pounds every year. Joined WW during the summers. Used squash to loose water weight the day before weigh in so I would loose weight despite the unhealthy eating I did all week. The reality was that I was not changing my lifestyle to loose weight; I was playing a game with the scales.
Age 22: Quit college. Gained another 20 pounds while processing the loss of no more education and friends. Ate lots of candy bars many nights.
Age 22 and a half: Joined WW. Ten months later (March 2003) I celebrated a 100 pound loss. Yep. I did it. I lost a whole person. I was married a month later and continued to loose weight. I lost about 118 pounds before gaining back about ten pounds. Then I got pregnant. I gained 35 pounds with Isaiah's pregnancy. But, the victory for me was that none of my old habits returned. I was not using food to cope with the stress of pregnancy and all the other craziness of that time frame.
My bad habits returned in the post-partum days of learning to juggle a newborn, a young marriage, and the day to day stress of life. With hopes of rediscovering my previous huge success, I re-joined WW after Isaiah's birth. And after Rose's birth. And after Lela's birth. And, now, after Samuel's birth. A definite, obvious pattern.
How will this time be different? Will I find the success at WW I hope for? Honestly, I do not know. I do know my goals. I have my eyes set on them.
1) I want to be a good steward of the body God has given to me. To be faithful "in the small things".
2) I want my kids to never have this struggle in their lives. Ever. I know it starts with ME. May God give ME victory so that my kids will have victory.
Do I want to loose weight?
So, with ALL of that in mind, I begin. I'll keep ya posted. wink-wink
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
I have disinfected my one-year-old about twice a day the past three days. Sigh. I was hoping she wouldn't realize the fun of the mysterious water. With the success of Rose's potty training, Lela has shown a huge interest in the toilet. She asks to go "poo-poo!" and has been content to just sit, fully clothed, on the toilet or potty chair. Until now. Now, when I leave her all innocent on the potty chair, I return to find her digging toilet paper out of the big toilet. AH!
"That water is gross, Lela! Don't touch it; it's icky," I say right into her sweet face. She stares at me, her eyes quite unbelieving. She thinks I am tricking her; after all, isn't all water good for playing?
Reality check: I would rather have my jewel Lela Mae and clean toilet ick off her every day than to be without her. Good times.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
"So glad they're in school now."
"Spend two years getting them to talk and the rest of their lives getting them to shut up."
"No, we're not having more. I don't think I could stand it."
"How do you do it? I can barely stand my own?"
"What was I thinking having kids?"
I want my children to believe they are gifts; that I treasure them as precious jewels from God. Because, I do. I do treasure them. They are my calling. God has given them to me to mother them and teach them His ways. Why am I complaining? Why am I counting down (outloud) the hours/minutes until naptime? Isn't the time with my children counted a blessing?
I have a
That's my thought for the day! Only took me about three hours total to get it down on post. Nothing like having lots of really great, wonderful and beautiful reasons to pause my writing. I love my kids.
Monday, November 24, 2008
While in the
I am not the mother who made chocolate chocolate-chip pancakes two days in a row because I didn't get enough the first day. No, I do not love chocolate so much that I could eat it everyday and I absolutely do not feed my kids chocolate every day.
I did not gleefully volunteer to go get the extra groceries we needed from the grocery store, leaving my hubby to fend for himself with four kids. I certainly did not giggle on my way out the door as the kids continued to whoop and holler and my husband did not stand at the door and forlornly watch me drive away.
Friday, November 21, 2008
By observation, I can confirm I am using food to help me get through my day. Not limited to sweets, but definitely preferred. I am not proud of this, in fact, I am disappointed in myself. Food addiction has been a struggle with me since I was about 14 years old. I have had successes and I have had failures. I feel very much a failure right now. I ate a good dozen chocolate chip cookies last night. Argh! I want freedom from this, I do. But I do not know how to grasp it. I am seeking the Lord for direction and freedom.
Thanksgiving is next week. My heart longs to be with my family on this holiday. Thanksgiving has always been my favorite holiday because we used to spend it with all the extended family. Now, thousands of miles away from all family (except Aunt Rachel, who I am incredibly thankful to have living with us!) TDay will be just us. I have invited a few families, but it may end up truly being "just us". Won't that be odd? Just our little family for Tday? Munching away on the huge turkey I bought from Walmart? There will be lots of leftovers.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Why do we accept this as normal? I read Tyra Bank's article about her teen sex survey and it is downright disturbing. Dr. Schroeder, an executive director from a teen sex education program, is quoted in the article. She says, “This so clearly points to the need for comprehensive sexual education for kids. Parents need help talking with their kids about sexuality, and schools need to be talking to kids about sexuality. They are not talking to their parents; they’re embarrassed to talk to their parents. And more than them being embarrassed to talk to their parents, their parents are embarrassed to talk to them. So they're finding all [about] sex education with their friends, with their peers."
OK. My thoughts... I totally disagree with the answer being that schools should be educating our children on sex. What will they teach my sons and daughters? That sex is for marriage? That God made sex? That waiting until your wedding night is well worth it?? I do not think that is in any of the sex education curriculum currently being taught in schools. Too bad because THAT is TRUTH!
I do agree with Ms Schroeder when she says that parents should be talking to their kids about sex. Absolutely!! It is a problem that parents are shying away from such a huge topic. God does not shy away from this topic, why should we? God makes it clear that he created sex; it is good. Sex outside of marriage is not what God created. The world and the Enemy has presented sex in an ungodly, horrible, and ugly way. MTV, Hollywood and the media (not to mention commercials!) spread the message that sex is short skirts, one night stands, half-naked Britney Spears, tweens wearing makeup and looking like women, teenagers having sex is normal, etc. Every show on TV today presents sexually active teens. Even "7th Heaven" with the minister's kids, depicts that no one is waiting for the marriage bed to fulfill their sexual desires! What is up with that?
Parents, we need to be bold about addressing sex with our children. The world is beyond bold about their views on sex; they are brash and in-your-face about it. We will have to be louder and more confident then the world or our children will not hear us. And, we need to start praying when they are inside our womb, before the world can begin its influence on them. Parents, hear me when I say we DO NOT HAVE TO ACCEPT that our teens will just be sexually active. It does not have to be that way!!
Let's pray. Let's teach them GOD'S WAY. Let's be vigilant about what we allow into our homes. Subtle messages get through to their tender hearts; do not allow them to watch shows that promote, even subtly, that sex before marriage is OK. Do not play music in your home that preaches that message. I am passionate to raise up my babies into men and women of God. I pray desperately that God will give them the self control and innocence to keep themselves pure. I pray that their wedding night is full of beauty because it will be their first time and will be free from memories that tear marriages down.
Be bold! Teach truths. Protect your tender children. And PRAY, PRAY, PRAY!
The big kids went to play group this morning so I was left with my little ones. I decided it was a good opportunity to run to Wally World to pick up that "one thing". You know, the elusive "one thing" that you always forget at Walmart. The "one thing" you just cannot do without so you absolutely must go back to the humongous store for the "one thing". Yea, so that one thing beckoned me out into the cold with two babies. Off I went!
We did good, me and the kids. Samuel screamed the whole way there; that was fun. Seriously. There is nothing like riding in the car with your tiny infant strapped into his car seat, screaming his head off. Taking deep breaths helps. I considered running a red light so I could get there faster. There were not any cars coming, it would have ok, right?? I was not sure a police officer would agree with me so I stayed put. With the screaming child.
Despite the screams, we made it to Walmart, wrapped Samuel against me, and went to find our "one thing". Shortly, my one thing was in the cart and I was ready to check out; it had been less than ten minutes. Samuel was just beginning to fall asleep in the wrap. Mmm... The bon-bons are towards the back of the store. I started in the direction of the chocolate yummies. Then, I remembered my prayer earlier today. My prayer asking God to help me not use food to cope. My prayer surrendering overeating to God and asking for his strength. Asking for the spirit of self control. Sigh. No bon-bons.
Walking out of the store, I felt so victorious! I know it's a small thing, but to me, this chocoholic-crazy mother, it is a big thing!
What has been your small, but big success today?? Please share!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Friday, November 14, 2008
Mommy and kids head upstairs to get dressed and do laundry. Baby cries. Postpone getting dressed and laundry. Rose's room is still locked because she locked it and Mommy doesn't know how to unlock it. All three "big kids" play in Isaiah's room.
9:05am Baby fed. Lay baby down. Isaiah and Rose are fighting; screams abound.
9:08am Baby cries. Pick baby up. Rock baby and stare at mounds and mounds of laundry waiting to be folded. While Mommy rocks baby, Lela bites Rose; Isaiah punches Rose; Rose pees all over the bathroom (even though she was sitting on the toilet).
9:37am Supermom realizes she can lay baby down beside her and bounce the bed slightly while folding clothes. Keeps baby sleeping so Mommy can tackle the laundry. Isaiah comes in the room and says, "Rose hit Lela again."
9:45am 1 hour and 30 minutes before Mommy Meltdown
Mommy marvels that she can fold two loads of laundry in under ten minutes. With baby still sleeping soundly, she hurries to put the laundry in, gasp, their dressers. Lela cries about a bump on the head and follows mommy around from room to room.
9:50am Isaiah punches Rose. Mom discovers the pee in the bathroom.
10: 05am Mommy breaks from laundry and reads books to kids. Rose misses the reading due to unexplainable crying.
10:30am 45 minutes before Mommy Meltdown
Isaiah gets mad at Mommy and runs downstairs. Mommy and the girls leave baby asleep on Mommy's bed and go downstairs after Isaiah. Isaiah has gotten crackers out and snuck a piece of chocolate.
10:34am Mommy prepares snack for big kids. Cheese and crackers. Isaiah reminds Mommy he doesn't like cheese. Mommy reminds Isaiah she already knows Isaiah doesn't like cheese.
10:37am Mommy sits down to blog. Mommy discovers that the Internet is offline. Mommy sighs and plays with the computer in attempts to fix the Internet issue.
10:45am Rose cries. Mommy does not know why. Isaiah runs crazily through the house. Lela plays with play-dough.
11:00am Mommy looks longingly at the computer, wishing it would work. She also considers turning on a video for the kids to watch, but then she could not claim the title of Supermom. You know Supermom does not let her kids watch TV, right??
11:05am 10 minutes to Mommy Meltdown
Mommy starts to prepare lunch. PB and honey for Isaiah; leftover enchiladas for the girls. Rose follows Mommy around, still crying. Rose follows Mommy so closely that Mommy trips over Rose. Mommy yells at Rose. She is starting to loose it.
11:08 am Lela sits at the table and plays with pepper. Mommy tells her to leave it alone. Isaiah asks for a piece of gum. Mommy says no. Isaiah says his old one fell out of his mouth so can he please have another?
11:12am Mommy asks where the chewed up gum might be. She tells him to go look in his room. But, please be quiet because baby is sleeping.
11:14am Isaiah yells from upstairs. Something about not being able to find his gum. Mommy feels steam blow out her ears. The yelling is bound to wake up baby. Mommy goes to foot of stairs and yells at Isaiah to quit yelling.
11:15am Baby cries. Mommy looses it.
That was my morning. Fun, huh? My throat hurt for a good hour after my screaming session. I am sure the neighbors got a good show from the crazy mother of four. Entering my room, post meltdown, my tiny baby was crying for me. The whirl of the fan drowned out the crying children downstairs and I decided to lay down next to the little guy for a short nursing break.
Laying there, I could hear the muffled cries of the other children. I could hear them mimicking their mother with their own screams at each other. I watched my complacent newborn suckle at my breast; he looked so peaceful and content. Sigh. What bliss. Aside from the yells downstairs. The Lord and I had a short conversation about motherhood and yelling and keeping it together and laying it all down and peace and joy.
After a few minutes, I heard squeals of laughter downstairs. I was certain only naughtiness would be bringing such glee. Sure enough. After Samuel had his fill of mommy's breastmilk, I headed downstairs to discover a huge mess of salt and pepper.
"Mommy, I didn't do it!" Isaiah said. "Lela Mae poured out the pepper. Rose did the salt. I only licked it."
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
I stood in the small cubicle, staring at the mirrors. I sighed. I have never had success finding nursing bras that fit. With my rather large cup size, even regular bras are difficult to find, but nursing bras have proved to be completely elusive to me. This is my fourth time around with breastfeeding and I still doubted ever finding the perfect nursing bra.
The Full Cup is a "fine lingerie" boutique in the area that promises to find you the perfect fit. Jason and I planned a trip there during my recovery period post delivery. It was my last hope for finding a nursing bra that I didn't have to "settle" for. The place was adorable with red walls and little bustiers everywhere. The clerks were incredibly professional and kind.
"Jessica? May I come in?" she asked from the hall.
I eyeballed the new bra and my breasts oozing over the top. Obviously, it did not fit me. "Yeah, come on in," I said with a sigh.
The clerk came in, adjusted the ivory bra and said, "Um.. Let me see what we have in the back."
They dug out the old ugly bras for this big-chested nursing momma. The clerk returned with a plan, nude-colored bra that resembled a vest. I tried it on and, it fit. Which is what we were looking for, but it was not sexy in any way, shape or form. The clerk and I stared at the vest-bra. She smiled at me.
"Ya know, nursing bras are only for a year or so. Then you can come back, we will refit you and you can have another bra. It's just the nursing bras that are difficult for us to find. We have lots in your size that are not nursing bras... Just come back when you're done nursing," she said. She smiled encouragingly at me.
"It fits, that's what I need. Thank you," I said. I meant it. Who cares if it looked like the top of an old fashioned swim suit.
The vest-bra sucked fifty-four dollars from our meager budget. I considered a change of mind, but Jason would have none of it. I needed the darn bra, we both knew it.
A few days later, the tall tell signs of a yeast infection/thrush showed up on Samuel's tiny tongue. My nipples began to ache, and I knew Samuel and I were infected with yeast. As a refresher for yeast treatment, I researched websites online.
"It says to microwave the bra to kill the yeast," I said to Jason while I scanned another informative website. "Do you think that will work?"
"Makes sense to me," my wise man said.
The next day, early in the morning while Jason got ready for work, I carefully laid my new vest-bra in the microwave. I even took the extra effort to lay it on a paper towel so it would not get dirty in the much-needed-to-be-cleaned microwave.
"You think two minutes will be enough?" I set the timer for three, just to be sure to kill all the yeast. The microwave light came on and began to rotate my bra. I watched it.
"I was afraid the metal would set sparks, but... I don't see anything," I said. Jason stopped his hurrying to watch the bra turning slowly in the microwave.
"Yeah, I wondered about that. But there's no fire, so..." he trailed off.
Then, I smelled it. Something burning. My stomach dropped and I popped the microwave door open. The bra looked fine. I pulled it out. Underneath the bra, against the clean paper towel, was melting, black fabric. I had melted my fifty-four dollar nursing bra.
Jason and I stared at the bra. It smelled.
"OH NO!" I moaned. Laughter and tears were fighting for release. I chose to laugh. The burnt bra was funny. What was so NOT FUNNY was that the bra was ruined. I had wasted our precious money by cooking it. "Oh, Jason!"
He was laughing, too. We looked at each other. "We'll get you a new one," he promised. But, I knew we had no more money for expensive, but ugly lingerie. The new bra would not be allowed into the budget until January when the holidays are far behind us.
My tears never surfaced. I photographed the burnt bra before trashing it. The house smelled of smoky plastic for an hour or so. I learned my lesson. One cannot microwave bras. Oops.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
I ventured out alone with the baby this afternoon. Oddly enough, I was quite nervous heading out to run a few errands with just me and he. Samuel was excellent on our mission. He fussed a little on the way to the herbal store, but quieted down and slept. I carried him in his carrier, receiving lots of "oh, how old is he?" To which I proudly answered, "He is two weeks,today!" "Oh, what a cutie..." "Well, of course he is.. I mean, thank you."
At Wal-mart, stop #2, I paused to feed the little man. On this note I want to give a shout out for breastfeeding!! Can I just say that THIS is the way to go?? No bottles to lug around, no formula that needs fresh water, etc. My breasts are always full of ready, perfectly made for my newborn, milk. And, it is already warmed to perfection. Loving it! Rose calls my boobs, my "bras". She says, "Are you going to give him your bras? Does he need more of your bras?" Hee-hee.
After a 30 minutes love/nursing session, we are ready to don the baby wrap and head into the store. I feel just a tiny bit conspicuous as I stand beside the mini-van and wrap the yards of brown fabric around my chubby self. Perfecting the wrap, I snuggle my darling down against me. It feels rather familiar having his little body pressed so close to my heart. Through out the store I observe strangers reactions. It is quite a fun experiment. Young and old do double takes of my wrapped baby. Makes me smile and kiss his little head.
Rounding the corner to the junk food aisle (yes, that's right, I'm eating junk food!), an older woman grins at the baby strapped to my chest.
"Looks like you got a new baby for Christmas," she says to me.
I smile proudly. "Yep."
"How old is he?"
"Two weeks today!" As an added bonus, because the Gramma looks so sweet, I pull back his wrap so she can see his adorable face.
"Oh! Is this your first?"
I get that a lot. "No, actually. He is my fourth."
She is still smiling. In fact, in gets bigger. "Oh, are your other children in school?"
I get ready to shock her. "No. My oldest is four."
Her eyes widen, but the smile stays genuine and bright. "Oh my. You are quite blessed. Very, very blessed." We smile at each other. I assume the conversation is over. But, she turns back around suddenly and says, "You know, my daughter, she has one child. She has done fertility treatments three times and still can't have another baby."
And I am humbled. Me and Gramma look at each other. What can I say? Standing there, holding my fourth blessing. Fertility abounds from my womb.
Gramma breaks the slightly awkward silence. "I guess it's just one of those things. Can only do so much.. What is meant to be will be." We smile at each other and then move on down the aisle.
A run in with a stranger momentarily stops my mommy spinning. My babies are a blessing. Of course, I know that, but I desperately need daily reminding. Thank you, Lord for sending someone else's grandmother to pat my head and say, "God has blessed you." I needed that.
Sunday, November 09, 2008
It is "Not Me!" Monday and I am jumping in again! I missed it last week. You know I had a baby. I mean, did NOT have a baby... wink wink. Check out MckMama's blog, who also did NOT just have a baby, and her "Not Me!" list.
I did not totally disobey the commands and attend TWO birthday parties during my two week mommy vacation/recovery period. I was not tired and exhausted after breaking the rules. Nope. I have an endless amount of energy.
I have not already complained about not being able to lay my newborn down for fifteen minutes so I could take a shower before realizing that holding the newborn is the most important thing. I did not cry as the realization grew that many mommies have lost their newborn and that my newborn was certainly a treasure. I did not go right then and scoop up my newborn, inhale his precious scent and rock him for a good hour, grateful to have him in my arms.
I did not dress all four of my young children in adorable overalls and drag them to a photo studio 45 minutes away so they could sit for ONE family portrait. My husband did not proceed to entertain the three older children with many walks around Wal-mart so that the newest child could star in his own portrait session as The Newborn. I most certainly did not over spend on our meager budget so that I could buy ten portrait sheets of one child! Nope. I am much too wise and self-controlled to do such things. It was not me.
I did not dazzle two new friends with the ages of my children. Yes, they are four, three, one and half and... newborn. Smile.
It is not me who is slightly terrified of the approaching Wednesday. For Wednesday most certainly does bring an end to my mommy vacation as Daddy returns to work. I am not overwhelmed in the least at being the sole caregiver to four children under the age of four.
I stood in the midst of fellow believers this morning, closed my eyes and soaked in the presence of God's people. This new church is full of men and women who are excited about the gospel. They are in love with Jesus Christ. They are so excited about Jesus that their neighbors start showing up at church. Their relationship with Christ is so real and evident, it overflows into every area of their lives.
The creation displays the glory and majesty of my God. The colors on the trees take my breath away. I know I have already written about this, but today refreshed the words in my heart. The reds and oranges are so bright and brilliant. My eyes drink it in. "I can't wait to meet the God who created these colors!" Then I realize, I have met Him! He has invited me into relationship with HIM! The creative, infinite Being who designed the leaves to change colors loves ME and wants a relationship with me, Jessica. Does that not just boggle your mind??
Holding my 12 day old son, I am reminded of God's undeniable presence. Only the One True God can create a life, perfectly formed and place him on my chest. There is absolutely no way a human was created inside me without the hand of God. I cannot believe creation "just happens"; how can unbelievers not be immediately convicted of the Truth upon seeing a newborn? Upon witnessing a birth? Only God has the power to breathe life into a womb and knit together a human. My tiny baby is a testimony of the very presence of God.
And so, I am amazed, AMAZED at my God. He is incredible. Indescribable. Infinite. This Being, this creative, compassionate God loves, LOVES, me. Simply amazing.
Saturday, November 08, 2008
Here's my little angel. She is sporting three birthday gifts from Gramma Tami. Guess what they are??
PS Note the toys all over the floor. Don't you love my decorations? And, so what if it is 10 o'clock in the morning and the kids are still in their PJs; what's wrong with that?
I sit on the couch, nursing the newborn. Isaiah runs through the house, Superman cape flying in the breeze. Rose sits as close to the baby as she can, giggling as he burps and gurgles. Lela plays quietly with a baby doll. Wow. I have four kids.
Jason holds Samuel while brushing Rose's teeth. I sit beside him, reading Isaiah and Lela Mae a bedtime story. We look at each other. "We have FOUR kids."
These semi-shocking moments take my breath away. How did this happen? I mean, I KNOW how it happened, but when? In the blink of an eye, God took a single girl, married her up to an amazing man of God, opened her womb and created four lives.
I look at each of the blessings in my home and am amazed at God's designs. God, You did good.
Wow. I have four kids.
Thursday, November 06, 2008
Even though there is a studio not fifteen minutes from our house, we chose to drive 45 minutes to the studio Rachel works in so she could be our photographer. Not every photographer can handle four kids under the age of four. Rachel did great, ofcourse. Go Aunt Rachey!
The drive to the studio was beautiful. Fall colors reign across the landscape here in Virginia. I am a Texas girl at heart, but Virginia definitely has Texas beat with trees and the Autumn foliage. (I automatically feel like a traitor just typing that... hope no one sends me hate mail...) I was so taken with the colorful trees I kept saying, "LOOK! Jason, look at those colors! LOOK! Look at the red! It's so bright." Jason would nod. He seemed unimpressed, which, I so totally could NOT understand!
Isaiah was more inspired. He asked me, "How do they do that, Mom?" Like it was a trick someone was playing on the commuters. I laughed and then quickly jumped at the chance to tell him of God's amazing creativity.
"God does that, Isaiah! Isn't that cool??" Then I went on to explain about Autumn and Winter. As long as he gets the "God thing", I do not mind him taking awhile to pick up on the changes of seasons.
God really is a creative God. The colors on the leaves outside my window are beautiful proof. I stand in awe of His majesty. Red, yellow, orange and gold leaves swirl around the sky and I am humbled by my God's presence.
Oh yeah, the portrait session was a big hit. Samuel did great. He even woke up for the sitting, so his adorable eyes were wide open. We took one family pose that I can hardly wait to display proudly on my wall. The rest were all about Samuel James. Oddly enough, this is the first time our family has taken newborn portraits. I guess it took me four babies to decide that was important. Go figure.
Monday, November 03, 2008
Samuel cried most of the 20 minute drive home from our friend's house. Isaiah said, "Be quiet, Samuel!" Rose asked, "Why is he crying?" We keep trying to explain "that's what babies do..." Then we try to act nonchalant about it; nothing unusual going on here. But, an infant's cry is disturbing. God made it that way. It is not meant to be ignored.
Postpartum is an interesting time. My body is going through this huge, quick overhaul. The uterus has already shrunk from the size of a watermelon to the size of a grapefruit (or smaller, I think). What a huge abdominal change. My body has shifted from producing massive amounts of hormones necessary to maintain a pregnancy to producing hormones necessary to produce an endless supply of breastmilk. Whew! It is quite the ride.
I am enjoying watching my body shrink. I have already dropped the 11 pounds I gained during the pregnancy. Now, before you get all excited that I only gained eleven pounds, remember, I was/am a "big girl" before I got preggers. So, when you are overweight, you are not supposed to gain the wonderful 30 pounds those skinny girls get to pack on. Not me. But, I am a bit proud of myself for keeping it real, and not pigging out. Since having Samuel, six days ago, I have lost about 16 pounds. Pretty cool. I am fitting into many of my pre-preggers clothes. That is super nice.
OK. That's my update. Hope it keeps you going. I know you all miss me. Wink-wink. Sigh. I miss you, too. But, motherhood, as you know, is my ministry. Not blogging. Well, not just blogging. Smile.
Saturday, November 01, 2008
I am falling in love with this little guy. He is beautiful. So sweet and precious. Laying across my shoulder, suckling at my breast, staring into my eyes... My heart constricts with this intense love; I pray daily for God's protection on my tiny son.
My children are adjusting to another sibling. They love Samuel. When I come out of my resting place, they do not greet me with "Hi mommy!!" No. It is "Where's Samuel?" Or, "Samuel's here!" It is precious how much they love him already.
On the first day Lela, the booted-out baby, had difficulty with the adjustment. She really struggled with the loss of her baby spot. It does not help that she is teething and generally, feels icky anyway. The first day has come and gone, and my Lela Mae is slowly growing into her new position as a big sister. It is a heart aching process for me to watch. I know God created Lela to be a big sister at 19 months, but it hurts to watch her hurt. I have watched this pattern with the older two. I know, after a few weeks, the booted-out baby will accept her new position as a big sister. I know that she will adore her younger sibling and that a special bond will form with the new playmate. In the end, it will be good.
As my body recovers from labor and delivery, my husband continues to play Mr. Mom. He does a good job, but I can see the stress level in him rise throughout the day. He has a growing appreciation for my job. The housework is building. Jason has to search laundry baskets of wrinkled, clean clothes for the kids' play clothes everyday. There are no clean towels in the bathrooms, but there is a load of towels in the dryer downstairs. Several days we have run out of clean eating utensils. Smile. I think they miss me.
Blogging has already taken a backseat to the new demands of motherhood. I will write as the Lord provides snippets of opportunity. I definitely will continue to post pictures of the family. And, my new trick, videos! Praise God for the technology that allows me to share with far away family and friends.
Motherhood calls. Off I go...